If you're not feeling satisfied in your relationship do you still have sex frequently? If not how would you fix it? I'm a quality time person and my so is a physical person. But we're in a rut currently because of lack of money for dates and time out of the house and thus this makes me. It want to participate in sexual activities. But not to hold it over him but because of the lack of needs on my end. Should I just bit the bullet to not ruin our relationship?