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I hate having sex...

Sa • Mon, Jan 16

I've been sexually active for a little over a year (I'm 23 and my husband and I waited til we were married. We were virgins before that)

I'd say we have sex at least once a week and I still have not had an orgasm. It feels good and I can get close, but I just can't get there... After he blows, he's just done, there's no helping me along. I just lay there..so disappointed. Sometimes crying, I didn't think that after I got married I'd have to be relying on getting myself off.

I love him to death. But sex is kinda important in a relationship. I just wish he was more willing to try new things...I don't know. I just feel defeated. I wish I didn't waste all my time saving my self for marriage. Cause now I have this really crappy view toward sex.

Anyone have pointers, advice anything for my pathetic situation...

Anyone wanna come get me off?

Come punch my husband in the nuts?

Anything will help!

Thanks ladies!

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