orgasms??

Question

So I've never had an orgasm so I'm wondering what the hell is wrong with me and what do I do?

Answer

make sure you could have an orgasm on your own before you put that kind of pressure on your partner.

females need a lot of arousing thoughts to orgasm on top of specific massaging of sexual organs.

I can make myself orgasm if I lay facedown. rub myself and play with my nipples. and think of arousing things.

once you figure out what makes you come the best. you can try to reenact those arousing things, have your boyfriend learn how to dirty talk, find the best position that feels good, and think about what it is that turns you on.

Answer

It took me years of thinking I had issues and will never be able to come but realistically in my situation it was because I was dating a man with a short stub for 4 years. After we broke up I of course dated other guys and most guys don't have limp dicks or short stubs so I realized that if I'm on top riding him I can usually come in about 5 minutes if I keep my mind clear and sexually focused.. I also like when a guy puts his hand around my neck and or other hand on my nipples that's how I'm usually guaranteed to have a nice big O.. also sex needs to be wet so if you're not capable of producing much wetness (due to your period) perhaps if you're dehydrated etc, it's nice to have a bottle of lube handy. I think it's extremely rare when a women cannot come, you just have to discover what can make you come.

Answer

Sometimes it just takes a lot of time, effort, and work from your partner too. Try different positions. For me I always ride and after about a month I really got the hang of what feels good for me and was able to orgasm that way. But a lot of people get it better from oral, so direct your partner on what feels good when he's going down on you.

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