Help!!!! I'm married and having my ceremony for family in September and my husband and mother is driving me nuts!!! My mom wants to throw us a reception and I'm cool with that but it's like it has to be her way or the highway is how I'm feeling and when I talk things over with my husband he disagrees most of the time. So now my mom thinks that I only care about my husband side of the family and not my own because I really didn't care to have a reception. I just want everyone to be happy and not have my parents spend a fortune on this reception because that is crazy to me. I am just really tired of being inconsiderate and being made to be selfish because I am doing what I want and seems like when I do make a decision that I want then my mom likes to tell me that my decisions are not my own. Do any of you ladies have any tips on how to survive the countdown wedding madness?