Is it pressure?

Me and my hubby promised to not put too much pressure on each other while ttc so that we still enjoy each other and it doesn't become a chore. Well today is my peak day the morning was spent cramping and now there is clear sticky discharge when I wipe. Am I pressuring him if I ask him to stop doing what he's doing and BD with me right now? It's not for enjoyment but a deposit does that make it a chore?