Tall girl problems and advice.

My wife is taller than me by nearly a foot. We're always trying to find new ways to bond and she told me recently that she wants to feel more "dainty" or feel like she's the vulnerable one once in a while. Meaning that she doesn't feel that way because she's usually holding me due to my being smaller than her and that's just how we naturally fall together while embraced. I've tried holding her more but it's unfortunately awkward even while laying down and she doesn't seem phased by my efforts (though she appreciates that I'm trying).

If you're taller than your spouse, what would you like for your SO to do in order for you to feel more submissive/protected/etc? I also am aware this is also an issue with men, so I'd love to hear your advice too guys.