Hey ladies! I realized today that I (and my husband ) am the only one that can affect whether or not we have a baby. I am tired of my negativity and I am determined that this will be my month to become a mother! I am 31 and this will be my 13th cycle of ttc #1. After this coming cycle, we are going to talk to a fertility specialist and get testing and figure out where to go from there. I really don't want to do that (of course if it comes to it, I will). I have decided that only I and my husband have the control and that's why starting the day after AF is gone (a few more days for me), we are going to bd every other day until I get that positive.  We both enjoy having sex but ttc can sometimes take the fun out of it.  This is an accountability post- who is with me?!? Let's share our calendars and make this the month me all get our Bfp! 😆