Ladies, is it fair?

Monica
My s.o plays video games for hours, everyday, but I don't say anything about it..as much as it irritates me. But it does get me so annoyed when in return I ask him if he could watch over the baby for an hour so I could get a nap in or have some time to myself, he either falls asleep claiming he's tired even though I'm the one who stays up at night..or says the baby is too fussy. Either he's playing and if he's not playing he's falling asleep because he's "bored". I feel like I'm raising a baby with a giant fucking man child and I'm reaching my breaking point. I can't even get him to take turns waking up at night to help me with OUR baby..and because of this I'm always in the worst mood. Please tell me I'm not the only one going through this and how do I make it stop? I need a partner. Not another child.