It's been a crazy year. Met this guy. Went on a couple dates. Became a couple. Sex was great. Beliefs were way different. Friends were way different. He was really nice until he started blaming me for things such as not seeing him enough when I go to school and work yet he doesn't go to school or have a job. Then I got him out of sticky situations like paid his phone bill for 2 months, got him Workboots for a new job that he quit 2 weeks later, drove all the way downtown (2 hrs away) to some bar to pick up him and his hammered buddies.

His family is a little wild and argumentative. So the times he got kicked out I ended up taking him in (on the couch) or put him up in a motel for the night.

My family strongly disliked him. Felt he was lazy (he literally naps all day). And there were some heated debates about creation and evolution.

Anyways. I've been so stressed throughout 80% of this relationship. I had to call it off. I was so close to failing a class because I was skipping and doing things for him or not studying because I had his problems to deal with as well as my own.

I called it off 2 days ago. Felt like a huge weight had been lifted off my shoulders.

Then I get a text from a number saying "HI it's me, my phone got stolen I need your help I got into a fight I've been kicked out have no where to go please respond I love you and need to see you so where are you and I think the called the cops and I need you to bail me out if they get me"

And just like that I'm stressed. I have not replied yet (got this text 10 minutes ago!)

I'm just beyond flabbergasted! Help!