I don't think I'm being weird about it. I think having him in the room will hurt me so much I had my whole pregnancy planned out he was supposed to have been my support and was hoping he was going to be by my side through it all. ever since he called it quits on us I've been alone through this pregnancy like he dosent really try to be involved. Does not ask me when is my next appt or do you have a way in getting there. Not even helped me financially . He left me with no money and has not deposited any money in our account.  I told him I'm a high risk pregnancy baby can come any day and I have nothing prepared. He tells me he wants to be part of her life but does not give much of an effort. He even was willing to give up his rights if I gave him a quiet divorce. I feel like I'm the only one stressing out about the baby. If I never text him how my OB apt go I doubt he would ever ask me. Im thinking of just having him wait in the waiting room