Help please!

My husband and I have been together for 5 years and I'm just not being please in the bedroom at all! It's so bad to were I don't want to make love to home at all. We have been trying to conceive since July of last year but no luck due to these reasons. He has a small member so small to the fact that sometimes I don't even think he is aware that he isn't inside of me. Secondly his foreplay doesn't last more that 2 mins. Lastly he has premature ejaculation. I need some tips or tricks or how to even talk to him about this because I would really like to have another baby before I turn 30.