So my husband is the most patient trustworthy man alive. He turns 30 in April and has had almost zero relationship experience. Myself on the other hand have been divorced and miscarried. I'm at a point in my life where I honestly believe I can be a good parent and I want to have a child. He has mentioned us "trying" soon. I told him I was coming off the birth control and now He's soooo gun shy. How can I get him more excited about the idea? I don't want him to if he doesn't feel ready. But do you ever really feel ready to have a baby?