I have always had a hard time having an orgasm during sex. The only time it was easy was during masturbation while watching porn. I could only orgasm during sex with my ex (who I was with for four years) by doing a lot of clitoral stimulation w my hand and I seriously would have to imagine porn in my head..as bad as it sounds it's true. And when he would give me oral I could never even come close to an orgasm. Welllllll last night w my new boyfriend I had an orgasm through oral sex alone and wtf omg I didn't have to imagine anything, it just happened and it was amazing. All I'm saying is that if I can have an orgasm that way, you can to. I'm still thinking about it like omg wtf