A few days ago I got fingered by my boyfriend for the first time. It was sore for a little while after and I bled a lot but I thought that was normal. Now today he was doing it again but this time he was focusing on my clitoris more, and it suddenly started hurting so he had to stop. Now it's really painful and the top of my vagina looks swollen almost, is this normal? And will it stop happening over time?