My husband has expressed that he is annoyed I am always tired before him and announce when it's bedtime and expect him to go to bed too. I usually go to bed around 11 but sometimes later. He stays up till like four playing video games or talking to our roommates. He comes to bed and runs my back till I fall asleep and most nights he goes to bed too but sometimes he leaves bed and I wake up in the middle of the night a lot and look for him and he's gone and I feel hurt over it. Just curious how other live in couples go to bed.