TTC and spotting

Shantel
My husband and I have been ttc for 4 years after our daughter had turned 5, she is now 9.
We haven't used contraception and had basic checks such as sperm count and I have had Pap smears and a laparoscopy. All which were normal.
I have experienced middle cycle pains, ovulation pains and cysts on my ovaries at different times. This month I have had spotting on day 20 and due for my period in approx 8 days time.
Can anyone give me some advice with what my body is doing? I'm so over it all.!!