How can I not be pregnant??

Lindsey
So this is my chart, gorgeous right? How can I not be pregnant with this?? I used every trick in the book this month and today the day before AF is supposed to come my cervix is low and soft and had a negative test today! I feel absolutely heartbroken. What can I do? I lost a boy in September at 16 weeks, I getting desperate. Any advice? 
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Su

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Because 33% chance per month is shitty odds.Stick at it girl! 

Su

Su • Jan 22, 2017
Also I'm genuinely sorry for your loss. It's not fair you had to go through that.

Su

Su • Jan 22, 2017
Hahahaha 😂 I know how frustrating it can get!

Li

Lindsey • Jan 22, 2017
You sound like my husband. Made me lol.

La

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Stop doing everything and just have sex!!! Book a get away! Do it on the couch! Just enjoy each other! 

Li

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Let me say that this month I have used OPKs, Preseed, soft cups, conception support, prenatals, Mucinex, and charting. Had sex every single day during fertile time and I know to within a couple hours of when I ovulated! 

Mi

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I had a chart a couple of months ago which looked perfect and "pregnant" like this one but I wasn't. I was so disheartened after letting myself become so excited and hopeful. I haven't charted since then - I'm afraid of getting emotionally crushed like that again. We've been ttc this time around for 18 months and are in the early stages of fertility testing. So sorry to hear you lost your baby. I can't imagine such heartache.

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Astroglide TTC. It worked first month for us 

Im

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You're doing all the right things. The only thing I would say is a positive opk indicates ovulation 24-48 hours so I would have sex 2 days after to make absolute sure. Don't lose hope though. My cheap preg tests didn't show up positive until I was 5 days late!!!! X

Im

Im • Jan 22, 2017
Just keep doing what you're doing. We only did it twice in the whole month I got pregnant because we did it exactly on the right day! I really hope this is the month for you xxxx

Li

Lindsey • Jan 22, 2017
Oh I did. Got a blaring positive OPK on Tuesday had sex that day and then Wednesday.