Agree to disagree. I am tired of the porn topics!  i was once ok with it until it became an addiction and my husband wouldnt touch me anymore because he got off earlier. when an issue becomes an addiction it is a Problem. If i am a social drinker and later alkie takes over my life it is now a problem, if i gamble at the casino once in awhile but later i cant stop doin it. it is now an issue. kill this topic