fuckboy troubles

i think i fell for a fuckboy... i really like him and we've been snap chatting for the past 2 weeks but he's made it clear he wants to fuck. i'm not opposed to it but it would be my first time so i told him i wouldn't right away and he's okay with it. there's just 2 problems... 1st. i've tried to make plans 3 times and all those times he really thought he could come but then would cancel and it doesn't make sense because he's really into me over snap and always says how much he wants to be with me. i've tried to mention it twice before that it bothered me but i don't think he gets how much i like him which brings me to my second point. 2. i like him but i think he just sees me as someone to hook up with... this could be because we haven't met yet or maybe because i'm a junior and he's a senior going to college soon. either way i don't want to lose him all together and i don't know what to do. any advice would be TREMENDOUSLY appreciated❤️