how do I tell my husband..?

Question

So here's the deal, me and my husband have sex about 1-2 times a week. Ever since I got pregnant with my daughter (who is now 4 months old) I haven't had a sex drive. He has a pretty high one, so it gets difficult sometimes and we argue. 
Anyway, he is obsessed with the thought of having anal. When I was pregnant we tried it for the first time. And I've done it 2 times since. But i don't like it. I can't relax enough and it just hurts. 
So Everytime we are going to have sex..he always asks for anal which almost turns into begging. And finally he acts like he's "settling" for sex if he can't get anal. 
I'm so annoyed because I DONT want to have anal and I'm sick of being asked for it. And when I say no..feeling like he's disappointed in just having sex.

Answer

Explain nicely once more that you don't want to do it because it causes you pain. Then, go out and buy a harness and strap on. If he asks again, get super excited pull it out, and tell him to roll over. My friend did this to her boyfriend once. He stopped asking.

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Just tell him the truth! That it hurts you. That should be incentive enough for him to not want to do it.

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Ha I'd tell him I'll take it up the ass again when he does. He can't get upset until he's experienced it.

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Thats how my bf is with head, it's so annoying.

how do I tell my husband..?

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