fleshlights good or bad?

Do any of your husbands have a fleshlight that they use on themselves or that you use on them? I am apprehensive about it but a friend of mine said that her husband LOVES theirs and that she uses it on him
When she isn't able to be intimate with him and that I should surprise my husband with one , but I've read reviews and a lot of men are saying it feels so much better than the real thing bc of how tight it is and gives a more intense feeling than any woman could accomplish. Makes my stomach kind of turn honestly .... but anyway anyone have any experience with the fleshlight on their spouse, good or bad ! I'm all ears ! Thanks !!!