TTC Baby #1, but having trouble!😩

Maria
Okay so I'm 23, will be 24 in June, and my husband and I have been TTC since 2013 and we've had no luck. In December of 2016 I went 44 days no period, we thought I was pregnant! Took a test which was negative then another 2 weeks went by with no period and took a test which was negative again and 2 days later I started my period... can someone help?Â