cycle madness

Hubby and I have been ttc for 3 cycles now. I'm in Day 21 of 30 day cycle. Yesterday and today I've been getting a little tightness in my lower belly and like, little aches. Also some pulling and pinching. It's odd. My cycles are pretty regular and usually this doesn't start until day 24 or 25. 
Ps. I've been a psycho today! Told my husband I wanted a week to myself because he disciplined our 5yo :/