Girls, I'm moving to a country where i have absolutely no relatives and no friends. Just me and my husband. I'd want to start a family there with him but I'm not sure if it's a smart move since it's impossible for me to have my mom or anyone with me to help. It's very important for us to move there for our future and career, and it's 16 hours flight from my home country so it's impossible to fly back or fly my MIL or mother. It's okay but i need to know from someone that it could still work, am i going to need another female or an experienced someone to help me after the delivery in anything? or is it manageable and still possible to handle everything alone with the hubby? Did you have anyone to support you the first few weeks after the baby was born? Especially because this is going to be my first and we have no experience with babies whatsoever.