How often should a couple have sex to have a healthy relationship?

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My boyfriend and I get frisky about every time we see each other, sometimes it may be oral or it may be sex. We only see each other maybe 3-4 times a week? He has school, I have work. What would you say is a healthy amount of sex in a week for a couple? Sometimes I feel like we have sex or oral way to much and it could be possibly all our relationship is based on. I don't want that. Opinions would be awesome:) Please and Thank you!

-Thank You for all the opinions. My boyfriend has told me our relationship isn't based in sex, pretty much everything everyone has commented he has said. I quests I needed reassurance. I worry way to much, again Thank You(:-

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I don't think there's a number that defines healthy

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It depends on the couple. We go through phases where it's every night that he's home, and we have phases where it may just not happen that week. 
As long as you both feel satisfied and like your needs are met, there is no right or wrong amount

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Its different with every relationship, me and my SO live together so we have sex almost every day. But spend time doing other things together as well because were always together. Yes sex is fun how ever if you feel that it is taking over your relationship i would talk to him about it and tell him you want to do couple things that doesn't always involve sex

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I don't see any point on not doing it if you both want that🐣 its cool if you know you're not together just for sex.. have fun i guess🐒

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Me and my husband have sex at least once a night during the week and multiple times during the weekend

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I work days during the week with weekends off. My boyfriend works nights and weekends are his busiest days. I technically see him every night when I pick him up from work and bring him home. That 20 minute car ride and is the only chance we get to see each other and talk during weekdays. Friday nights I sleep over and bring him to work on Saturday. On his day off I go right to his house after work.
I'm lucky if we have sex once a week when he gets home he's too tired which I understand, it just sucks cause my sex drive is at all time high
We're extremely happy and our relationship is healthy.

There's no set number of times that defines a relationship as healthy. It's just a matter of when you can see each other AND you're BOTH in the mood for it

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Well I mean if both of you want to do it then it's healthy. Just so long as the relationship isn't entirely based off sex and you do other stuff and actually have good communication on day to day things then you're all good.