Does anyone have tips or advice on how I can completely relax while doing anal. My S.O. wants to try it. We did it one time before and my ass hurt like hell, he kept telling me to relax but I couldn't get my mind of the pain. The worst part is he wasn't even fully hard when he was trying to enter so I know if he is all the way hard then my ass hole is going to fall out. Someone please give me some pointers.