So i just noticed my MIL is always on his side or dosent consider the big picture.

Example one:We were house searching and I decided to bring her along because I feel like she would have a good input. She went for the house around the corner from her house and talked Us into applying for the house, when others were better.

Example 2: my bf wants to pay off our debts with the remaining income tax money but I want to save since I'm pregnant and will be out of work. We have plenty of time to pay off debts , it's not incurring interest. She was on the phone with him trying to coach him how I'm wrong and should give him the money.

Idk just lately I thought I would get an honest answer to help us out because she is pretty wise but I feel like her input is becoming always one sided.... Anyone else ?