If the baby's dad/mom is still in the kids life is it's okay to write on social media my child instead of our child?

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I personally hate that. The other parent is still in it's life you could write our child instead of my kid. This is just one of my biggest pet peeves.

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My husband and I are still together. I call our son, "my son" sometimes instead of "our son". I don't really see the problem...

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It really depends on the situation. If the other parent is relevant to the situation (the three of them were doing a group activity, the parent was specifically talking about the other parent, etc), then I think it's rude to not say "our child." However, if it's something not involving the parent, I think "my child" would be appropriate.

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I will say "our son" if it also is about his father. If I am talking about something that doesn't include him I will say "my son".

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I'll say my child but I'm with my husband. It's my social media. Everyone knows his dad is around.

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I don't think I've ever thought about it. It's never been an issue because I don't friend randoms on social media so everyone knows my husband and I are together.

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"Our" child sounds like you and the father are a unit and are together. If you're not together you can say "my" and it sounds fine.

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I say our daughter because I'm with my husband. But if we were to get divorced I would refer to her as my daughter.

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I'm married with 3 boys and say "my" , "ours", "yours"  it's not to discredit or leave out my husband when I say"my". It just depends what I'm talking about as to how I word it. My husband doesn't care when I say things like "my boys" for example.

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I'm married, but I don't always say "our child" unless I'm talking about my husband and I and our son. Otherwise, he's my child.

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I guess it depends if you're still together with the kid's dad or mom.

If the baby's dad/mom is still in the kids life is it's okay to write on social media my child instead of our child?

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