After being in a relationship for 7 years with a man I thought was the love of my life who we share a child, I only recently recognised that our relationship ended atleast 3 years ago. Not only was I with for him for our child but I believe there was no love for a very long time and we both tried to make it work. Being honest, I stopped trying because he was not the man I fell in love with and unfortunately our relationship suffered, we talk but to maintain a smooth partnership for our child.