When should I tell my mom?

👑Alexis💜
So I just found out in pregnant (3 weeks as of now) & I'm already planning how I want to tell certain people. I'm going to tell my fiancé on Valentine's Day, & I was considering telling my mom on her birthday the following day. My plan is to take her out to eat that weekend & then tell her. Two problems tho: 
1. Her father passed away a few days after her birthday last year
2. I know that she's always wanted me to wait until marriage to have kids so I'm a little concerned about her reaction. 
So should I wait a few more weeks to tell her? I don't want to overwhelm her emotions & honestly I have no problem not telling anyone until it's impossible to hide. 

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