How would you take it if your boyfriend's friends disliked you?

Question

Without even communicating with you much, just disliking you for dislike's sake. For "stealing" their buddy.

I'm having trouble coping with that currently. My friend says I shouldn't want everybody to like me but this is one of my boyfriend's best friends. He's not just any person. He has the power to influence my boyfriend's perceptions and that's problematic to me.

Answer

If your boyfriend friends has the power to make him leave you then you need a new boyfriend, ESPECIALLY if they don't like just because.

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My husband has lost quite a few friends over me because i have low vision and cant drive they used to tell him to leave me that im no good if i cant drive or that i was worthless even his own mom tried to break us up she worked at a high school and we were 18 when we met and she would give the girls his number we knew we loved each other from day 1 and he said bye to the people who tried to tell him to leave me his mom came around eventually when she realized i wasnt going anywhere he told me hes glad they are out of his life they showed their true colors when they made comments about my eyes and they didnt want him to stop partying and settle down

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Try and hang out with the friends more, if you're friends with them they're less likely to see you as a best friend stealer. Men are weirdly territorial when it comes to the clique so don't let it bother you too much.

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It sucks but it is what it is your dating HIM not his friends they swear I changed him (he used to be involved in illegal things) but he CHOSE to turn his life around and now he takes care of himself I'm proud of him though I obviously can't say the same about his friends

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A few of my boyfriends closest friends don't like me. Your boyfriend should want you to be happy and if he was ever in the situation where he had to choose he should choose you over his mates, mine would any day. Try to make them like you if it bothers you but other then that, keep your distance from them x

How would you take it if your boyfriend's friends disliked you?

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