how do you know if a guy only wants sex and not a relationship??

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I am torn between two guys🤦🏻‍♀️ the one I suspect to only want sex but the onther is still a virgin that always wanted to have sex. But the first guy is a lot like me, badboy you know and the other is so sweet but hellppp??

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Well I don't know how old you are but I'm 22 years old and I will bluntly ask him what he wants and just to be real with me because we are adults there's no reason to lead me into a direction where you are not going. I usually don't have to ask because we establish what we want right off the bat. If you already think one is bad for you then that should already tell you something.

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Guys that only want sex, usually No matter what you two plan on doing that day it will always lead back to sex. They'll invite you over to "watch a movie" and immediately start trying things. They talk mainly sexual. Everything they do deals with sex. And usually they won't want to go on too many "dates".

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Honestly I would stay away from the bad boy. If you are looking for a broken heart, to get used or taken advantage of. They aren't a bad boy because they have a good reputation. The only way to know if it's just sex is not to have sex with them. Really get to know them. If they pressure you for sex then you know. Let their effort dictate their intentions. Take it slow and get to know them. Don't focus on sex and the goal of a relationship. It's a perk but not the most important thing. Someone that proves they are there for you. Someone that is there at the funeral home and the hospital when you or family are there. Someone that sacrifices their time when they don't have it to give. Their money when they don't have it to spare, their sleep to stay up with you when you are sick or need comfort. They make the effort no matter what. That respects, loves and adores you. Wait for that guy. Make him prove himself to you before you sleep with him.

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Well how are these two guys TREATING you??

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P.s. Virgins are a lot more likely to look to you to teach them the ropes so they'll be more attentive on how to get you off instead of only thinking about themselves (things to think about) and if either of them only wants sex and gets angry when you tell them you're not in the mood or that you aren't comfortable then tell that asshole to get lost. He don't deserve you, buy him a pocket pussy from Spencer's cause that's the closest thing to a real genuine woman he'll ever get with that attitude

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Make a pros and cons list for each one, pros cons for the short term, what they can offer you, how you think they'll treat you what are their views and wants for the future, same with cons does he have a temper, does he do drugs, does he disrespect his mother, does he have a car or job, is he responsible, things that you can see going wrong in the future with this boy and do the same for the other boy.

Whoever has more pros that you can relate too or that you want in your life is the one you should go for or if one wins over the other and your disappointed the other didn't get the vote then obviously you'd rather be with boy B

Hope all goes well with the choosing!!

how do you know if a guy only wants sex and not a relationship??

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