I've been with my Fiancé for 4+ years. When he proposed we were over the moon excited and our original plan was to get married 8 months after the engagement. We then decided to wait another year. For the past couple of days my soon to be sister in laws have either called and told me or told my fiancé that I am "not the one" I'm "manipulative", "have done nothing good for him" "twist words to get what I want" "choose his friends for him" and so on. I had no idea that his family felt this way about me and it hurt my feelings very very bad since I had already chosen one of his sisters to be my bridesmaid. The only ones who are even remotely supportive are his mother and father but they way everyone else has been acting has thrown our relationship for a loop the past couple of days. He stands up for me and tells them that we ARE getting married and that I am not those things (which btw I never have been or ever made him do anything)  but I'm stuck between trying to make everything okay between everyone or just completely removing them for me and my marriage with their brother (who is on my side but wants to still be good to his family which I completely understand)