Ladies, I am pregnant with my first baby. I'm 21 years old, graduated high school and college, have paid my own bills since before high school, have a full time job, and my fiancé of 7 years and I have recently moved into our own place. We are getting shamed for not being married and being young and having this baby. Keep in mind like I mentioned, we both are graduated with full time jobs. Why are people so cruel? Is it really the worst thing in the world to not have signed a peace of paper yet? We are planning on getting married, just not until after the baby is born. It's making me feel so bad because of the way people look at us. Plus what's wrong with our age? As long as we've achieved everything we've wanted to achieve in life does it really matter? 😐