So I have tried several times throughout my relationship to talk about my funeral and the kind I would like to have.. I want its far as giving him specific details but he never would say anything back except for nod his head.. he wouldn't tell me how he wanted his funeral.. the other day his brother brought up dying and damn did my partner jumped at wanting to know everything about how his brother wanted to be buried, even started telling the brother what he wanted.. 2 weeks later he is bringing it up again just to make sure he got it all... it pissed me off and has my feelings hurt that he doesn't give 2 shits about my death or my wishes.. why am I always last on his list...??