Need Advice Please!! 😳

So me and my bf have been having sex recently and had our first time last Tuesday (we were both virgins) so this is all new to us. We've tried different positions and it's felt good for me, but I never finish and neither does he. Tonight we were doing it and it was feeling great for me and I ask him every time how he feels and he always says that it feels the same. Well tonight afterwards he was really bummed out because we've yet to have a wow experience. I told him we would, but we're still new to it. He said it just feels warm to him and that he likes it when I give him head more than sex. Do you ladies have any advice on how to help him enjoy it more? I've felt so selfish about it because I enjoy it and he doesn't 😔