My first few kisses with my current boyfriend were so bad, I actually gave him lessons. I walked him through the steps of kissing with someone you can't just go for a crazy animalistic makeout sesh with yet.

Step 1. The moment: before most good kisses at the beginning of a relationship there is this crazy tension filled moment of innuenduous eye contact that makes the urge to kiss undeniable. Embrace that moment, it's like the drum roll before an important announcement. The suspense build up makes the actual thing so much more exciting, don't skip it.

Step 2. Testing the waters: Before most passionate makeout sessions you should generally give a little peck kiss to dip your toes in the water. When kissing someone new it is likely that their style of kissing is different from your own, so test the waters a little bit before jumping in, it will give you time to adapt.

Step 3. Easy there: Ease your way into a nice slow makeout sesh, this is still giving you and your makeout rodeo partner time to adjust to each other's kissing style. This is the stage where you learn the most about your partner. They are most likely going to kiss you the way they want to be kissed (unless this is someone who absolutely had no idea what they're doing) so meet your partner in the middle to combine the best techniques from both kissing styles to make one hot, spicy conglomeration of awesome.

Step 4. Go for it babe: If this is a game of poker, at this point I'm ALL in baby. Vary the position of your hands to make is extra seasoned. And if you feel like adding a little sauce sneak a little tongue in there. The key with using tongue is not to go too far into your partner's mouth, it's typically not appreciated past your partner's teeth. Keep your saliva to a minimum, you want to keep the mood alive. Try not to leave a snail trail on babe's face.

Have you ever made it with a bad kisser?