Can't stand BFs Mom 🙄

So we've been together a year and a half now and his Mom still calls to invite him places alone because he's "Single" & when he tells her he's not single she says "Yes you are, you aren't married yet." And then she complains to my bf that she knows I'm not gonna let her just pick up our Son/Daughter whenever she wants. HELL NO I'm not... You don't even respect me as a woman, you don't even see me as your daughter in law and expect me to just let take my child whenever you feel like it? Lol no. My boyfriend is black, & I'm Hispanic & can't help but think she's got something against that. I've taken care of my man like a King so no reason she's such a bitch. Anywho, anyone else feel the same?