Do you guys trust the pill?

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Okay so I'm a virgin. My boyfriend and I have almost had sex a couple of times but we haven't yet bc he says every time he puts on a condom that it turns him off. I'm on the pill and I been trying to take it at a certain time every night and I have been pretty sucessfull at that here lately. However I'm still scared that I could get pregnant if we tried without a condom. Any advice?

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First of all, don't let your boyfriend pressure you into not wearing a condom. It's your body, your choice. If you want to wear one and are uncomfortable not wearing one, that's the bottom line. If you also, don't want to wear a condom, then yes. It's fine to trust the pill just make sure you've been taking it on time for a month first.

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I have been on the pill for three years and we never use condoms. I have had scares but that's just because I overreact sometimes. No issues besides that.

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Your boyfriend's reasoning is an excuse. 
If you don't want to have sex without a condom then that's that. 
Also, if you want to rely on the pill you HAVE to trust yourself and the pill alone. If you don't take it ON TIME every day you take a risk. You can't have diarrhea or throw up after 4 hours of intake, and you are not allowed to miss a pill.
You need to trust the effectiveness of the pill. It's 99.7%. If you become severely anxious or paranoid then DON'T have sex without a condom, or not at all even.

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I've had no problem with the pill. I always do pull out though too

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I trust my pill. I've been taking it for years and me and my boyfriend have had alot of sex and he almost always cums in me and we never used condoms.

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I take the combination pill and I cannot tell you the last time that my boyfriend and I used a condom. He has never came in me though, and I don't intend on that happening. But, if you have been on your pill for a while and haven't had any slip ups, I would try it if I were you. It feels better anyway! 😋 IF you are absolutely sure that he has no STI's. Make sure you know his history!

The best of luck to you, girlie! ❤️

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I do trust my pill. My boyfriend and I really really hate using condoms. I know that people always advise it, but my boyfriend would be hard and then as soon as he puts it on, he goes soft. Plus, when he actually did have it on while he was hard and tried putting it in me, it would hurt me to the point where we are both turned off.

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I've been having fairly regular sex just using the pill for almost two years now, and I haven't gotten pregnant yet, so I trust it! But if you don't feel comfortable not using a condom, then you don't have to have condomless sex. I do recommend trying spermicide with it for extra protection, just do a skin test on you and your partner's genitals to make sure it doesn't irritate your skin.

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I trust the pill very much. My SO had the same problem, he tried like hell to use condoms and would be hard as a rock but as soon as the condom was on he would go soft in under a minute. When I was on the pill we had sex without a condom and he came inside me nearly every time we had sex which was around 4-5 times a week and we didn't have any issues. I was very careful to take my pill as exactly the right time everyday though.

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No offense...but he should really get over that. No one likes using condoms. But to answer your question, yes I do trust the pill. But my husband and I are married and we don't care if we get pregnant.

Do you guys trust the pill?

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