hey ladies

Hey ladies 

Have any of you ever have to move to a different state but leaving your husband or wife behind because he or she couldn't leave with you at that moment and will have to meet you in that state whenever he can make the move?

If so how did you cope?

My kids and I are moving to a different state but my husband (their dad) isn't able to move with us at the moment but we had already brought tickets that we no refundable to we can't cancel all of our flights because we would be loosing out on to much money and the cancellation charges are to crazy to take in for 5 people so we can't stay here with him which is very saddening for all of us.