To know or not

I need some help ladies. I go to find out if it's a boy or girl next week and now I am on the fence of knowing or not. I had my heart set on a gender reveal but I think I cannot wait. I have a boy abs a girl already so it does not matter which one it is. But I am also a planner and I need to know for my sanity... I don't want to wait til may. But I want a gender reveal party... help