sex??

Im 24 and ive only been with my husband. I  dont watch porn because ive heard its not how sex actually is and i find it disgusting to watch others. Also, he used to be addicted to porn. All i know about sex is from him, but its not enough anymore. All he ever does is shove my hands or head in his pants and play with my boobs. He wont touch me down there, we barely kiss or touch the rest of the body. I dont know what foreplay is - just read about it. I tried talking to him about it it hasnt helped. I dont know what to do. I want someone to touch me and kiss me everywhere. I want more i want different. Or is this what sex is just?