How can I get him back? 😢

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My boyfriend was texting another girl planning to meet her when I was due to give birth to our baby any day, out of anger I text a guy a simple 'hello'. I forgave him afterwards and I never carried on a conversation with the guy I text. My baby is now 2 weeks old and he's just found the message I sent to the guy and finished with me. It was just a mistake I did it out of anger but I know I shouldn't have done it. He's really angry and I don't know if I should leave him alone or text him? I really don't want to lose him we have just had a baby and everything was going perfect since he's been born. I really want to make our family work. I need advice how can I get him to forgive me 😢

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If he's dumped you for saying hello to a guy then he was looking for a way out. Don't go chasing him. And why would you want him back? No decent man would of been arranging to meet a woman when he has a pregnant girlfriend at home. Honestly, you sound very young. Don't feel tied to this boy when you deserve so much more.

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Let him go. You can't keep a man who doesn't want to be kept

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He has no room to get mad at you. He just was looking for  an excuse to go screw around

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I agree with Lexi and Natalie. This guy was already talking to someone else and you forgave him. Then he finds out you did the same (kinda) and meaves you? Babe this guy was looking for a way out already. He didn't want to be there with you before and he doesn't now. I'm sure seeing that in black and white really hurts but this guy does not deserve you. Find someone who will love and respect you. Not treat you like a placeholder till someone better comes along. Best of luck babe. Keep your chin up. Things are rarely as bad as they seem.

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You can't "make a family work". 😒 if it's not meant to be, you have to find peace with it and move on for your child.

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He was just looking for a way out in my opinion.. I'd just leave it alone.

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So think about this. Your boyfriend was texting another girl to meet up. You said hello to another guy. He finds it weeks later and breaks up with you. Saying hello vs. texting and meeting up, but your blaming yourself because he left ? Does that make sense to you ? I know you may want him back and everything but if he's leaving his family because you said "Hello" , he doesn't want to be with you. Yes I would text him. I'd tell him I love him and I wish he didn't have to go but if he must after a simple hello text that meant nothing I'd respect his wishes. I'd also be kind enough to let him know that my anger from seeing him meet up with another made me say hello but the love I had for him made me deny taking it even further which is much more than you can say about him considering he met up with a chick, and you stick around to make it work. All you said was hello and he's out the door. I'd text him and tell him, he could be on his merry way because I can clearly see that me and the baby don't mean anything to him for him to walk away so abruptly over something so petty that was in retaliation to what he originally did. I'd apologize for the tit for tat but I would let him know how ridiculous he is before leaving. And I'd move on.

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He was looking for an excuse to leave and he found it

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Tell him to fuck off

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You shouldn't try to get him back. All you did was say hi to the guy. He was trying to meet up with someone.

How can I get him back? 😢

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