Ladies I ask for respect and tolerance from you, those eho don't agree with me can give your POV without disrespecting me or my beliefs, please. First I'll start by saying I've been trying to get pregnant for years now, all my cousins and friends from highschool have one or up to 4 kids already. I even experienced my cousin fall pregnant after a one night stand, she was drunk and didn't care enough to use condom, she had an abortion because she already had a kid and of course the guy didn't wanted nothing serious with her(he paid for it). This hurts me so deeply, my mind, spirit and body ache, I can't understand why women will still have sex knowing they can get pregnant, it just takes one time. I know some get raped and don't want the baby, but why not think that there are tons of women who can't have babies and look forward to adoption? I really believe that after a one night stand, "accidentally" getting pregnant, the pill not being effective or a rape you all who fall pregnant unwillingly are put to a test, call it God, the universe or whatever. A test to see how inhumain your heart is, what level of remorse you have? If you don't want your baby think about those millions of women who can't have. Put your baby up for adoption. Again, don't be rude and share your opinions without rude words.