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Relationship Issues Advice please

It's a long post but bare with me I need some help.

Having some issues with my boyfriend. We've been together for a year and a half and I love him but there are some major red flags that I am noticeing.

We had sex early in our relationship and it was incredible and he was so sweet and kind and romantic, now none of those things matter to him.

He makes comments about my 'cottage cheese' on my thighs and my butt and it makes me incredibly insecure but when I tell him that he makes me feel bad that I took it serious. He makes fun of me for not 'taking care' of my self, (straightening my hair, wearing nice things all the time, and eating certain things)

He gets very emotional, not like crying but more like when I do something he doesn't agree with he'll say things like 'that really hurts my feelings, and continue on with it for a while.

He has anger problems, I'm not a confrontational person at all and it just seems like he likes to argue. I am always wrong no matter what. We have at least 3-4 arguments a day and it's all because I didn't do this right or I didn't think of this the right way.

He is manipulative, I can tell he try's to make me feel bad about things that I shouldn't feel bad about or were his fault. One of my weak traits is that I am a very kind and forgiving person and I feel like he plays to that to get his way or to make me feel bad. I also feel like his changing me, I am scared I am growing bitter towards him because he is this way.

I see so many good traits in him, but I'm really starting to wonder if they out weigh the bad.

I just honestly don't even feel like he wants to be in this relationship.

I love him as a person but I dont know what to do.

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