You have a toy? I do and my SO isn't happy.

So my SO is upset I bought myself a dildo that's apparently too big for me. Yes it is big (8 long, 1.75 thick) but I was impressed with the reviews and didn't realize the size. I also got a vibrator, but because it sort of looks like a 🍆he doesn't want me using it, even though that's what 90% of them look like.

This was at a time where he wasn't having any sexy time with me and I was getting extremely moody. I usually play with the shower head and I don't really like touching myself. So I went and found my own solution. He's convinced it'll change our sexual relationship, but sometimes I just need that release to calm down and it's a better alternative compared to other things.

So what are your thoughts on toys?