AF here again.. feel like this is never going to happen

Charlene
Been ttc with my husband since may 2016. Got our bfp 6th september and started to bleed 22nd october taking 2 weeks to finally miscarry. This is 3rd cycle we have been trying which i know isnt long but it has been a total of 10 cycles from May. Ive been tracking my cycle and we havent missed a day, we've both been taking prenatal vitamins. It doesnt help that people say you are more fertile after a miscarriage.. cos if you this is even more reason for me to worry that im not pregnant. Friends say at least you know you can get pregnant but i wonder what if that baby i miscarried was my only chance. Its getting closer to what would have been my due date in may.. i cried tonight when i saw that we hadnt been sucessful again this month. How long did it take for others who have miscarried to get pregnant and what things helped?