just friends?!

So I met this guy on tinder and we agreed we weren't in for a hook up. So we went to dinner and then a couple days later I went over to his house to hang out. We had a fun time, I helped hang up some tapestries in his house. Then we played his guitars and looked at his vinyl. We ended up on his bed cuddling watching a movie.
One thing led to another and I'm no longer a virgin. He didn't cum and it hurt a lot so I didn't either. I bled everywhere and it was super embarrassing. We took a shower together and he kept apologizing for taking my virginity. Now I feel like things are weird, and right before I left he said so you're okay with the just friends thing right? 
I'm not looking for a hook up but that's what we did. And now he just wants to be friends with benefits... what do I do??