He pitied me

One of the worst feelings for me is when my husband pities me, like today and he goes out to buy me a rose. Yes I'm the more romantic person and he probably felt bad that he didn't get me anything, which we both know is normal. So getting me a rose out of pity doesn't make me feel any better. I actually feel worse. I don't expect anyone to understand exactly how I feel. I'm simply sharing how I feel. Those of you who thinks I'm being insensitive and ungrateful, you don't know my husband the way I do so please don't say he was trying to be nice, trying to be romantic, or making a change on Valentine's Day. I live with this man, flowers, chocolates and gifts is not normal behavior for him. He felt sorry seeing fb posts all over with messages and gifts. Pity in my opinion is worse than not receiving anything.