first time .. advise?

Question

I'm 17 and I finally am comfortable enough with a guy and I think I'm ready to take it to the next level but I'm scared tbh I'm worried I will not know what to do will it hurt what do I do I'm not on birth control I'm kinda nervous any tips? Please help!

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If you feel comfortable enough to have sex with this guy, then go for it, but be safe & smart. Try to relax your mind & body or else the experience won't be enjoyable for you. If the guy knows you're a virgin then he'll probably take control (as far as positions, etc). He comfortable, enjoy yourself, and if at any point it hurts or he's going too fast, don't be scared to voice that 😊👍🏾

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Make sure you use a condom, don't let him talk you into not using one. Make sure you shave-everywhere. Make sure he takes it slow at first, because it is your first time. It will hurt, but that doesn't last very long. Enjoy yourself! You've got this. It's normal to be nervous.

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Take it slow. Kiss a lot and gradually touch each other more and more towards your crotches. Kiss his neck and maybe ask for him to take off your clothes or wait until he starts fingering you. Then after you're really wet take it slow with the sex so there's not much or no pain

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I'm 17 and I just had sex for the first time and its better if the person finger you first to get your hole open then have sex it won't hurt as bad.

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CONDOMS ARE YOUR BEST FRIEND!!!! I don't care how good it feels without one, you can never trust a man's pull out game.

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Honestly it didn't hurt much for me and didn't bleed at all and he was big. It's all a matter of taking it slow

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Educate yourself first.

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